So my daughter might have a sister. No im not pregnant and I didn’t have another kid… Daren cheated on me when I was about 3 months pregnant, and has been pretty much hiding this baby from me. The mother of the other baby contacted me, we talked a lot and we get along fine, we have definitely joined forces against this piece of shit :) She told me a bunch of stuff about him that I didn’t even know, more lies from him and more bullshit (not surprised). They are going to take a DNA test soon and we will see what happens, but this baby looks just like daren, and even a little like ava. I went from a blind rage to crying to being just plain pissed off and sick of him. That was the last straw…he has caused so many fucking problems with me and my family, and now this. He will not being seeing ava anymore and im going to secure full custody (not that he ever gets to see her alone anyway) and no judge in their right mind would ever give him any rights other than maybe letting him get visitation…supervised! Oh, and what a coincidence, I haven’t recieved any child support this month. He says they already took it out of his check and sent it to DCSE (lie) but the other mom told me he told her he hasn’t even gotten paid yet. Which would make sense. She is also going to report him to child services to get what her and her daughter deserve from him.
I am so glad I have been keeping a journal of all this shit, every time he was supposed to come see ava and didn’t show up, PrtScn-ing every tweet, facebook status, every conversation and every picture of him partying and drinking. Courts like to see that stuff :) I have so much shit against him it is unbelievable.
He completely fucked up his life. What an idiot, hahahahahah!
The only word I can think of to describe daren right now, starts with an N and ends with an R. Can you guess?? Yeah, that is how much of a fucking slimey shit bag he is.
Im done trying to push daren to be a good father. He’s going to do whatever he feels like and live his life like a carefree teenager and that’s fine with me. I don’t understand how anyone could have a child and not want to be around and do the right thing, but that’s really not my business and there is nothing I can do about it. Unfortunately he is damaged and unhappy and stupid. He will never grow up, and he will always think he is the center of the universe and act like the world owes him something.
I thank god I filed for child support. That is all the support I need from him. Ava does not need him, or anyone like him in her life. All she needs is the love of me and my family. She is happy and healthy and surrounded by happy and healthy people. Her “father” is nothing but a child and an alcoholic, and I will not allow her to be surrounded by such bad influences…. and bad energies!
